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Hey JJ, I'm hearing you loud and clear! Me too. Hugs PS: your signature was one of my DH favorite sayings

Thank you for this post. It helps me to know I'm not crazy for still being so in love with him and that it will take time to "get over it" as so many has tried to tell me to do.

Thank you all for you input. I've never been a FWB type of person and can't imagine starting now!

Glad you found us. Hold on is right!

Thank you Joey. My thoughts exactly!

Can't leave the body of the message empty. Ugh

Love it Just Jen. PJs just for you! You rock girl!! ❤️

Thank you Maurren for letting me put it out there. This is not me but need to have some discussion and someone actually hear me. Thank you for hearing me!

The next one means more

Thanks Trying. At 26 month I need to take your advice! I'm doing that next week. I need to do something!

It's crazy isn't it. They knew and supposed loved him too. Why don't they want to talk about him? WTF? I always want to talk about him!

You have a great friend to be there for you! You are truly blessed in this darknesshugs!

Nope but if you get some sound advice, I'll listen . At 27 months I know it's time but it's so hard to ask for help.

I'd drop that one like a hot potatoe. You could possibly expect that if he was an inexperienced teenager but a 40 something, don't give him the time of day! move on MYTs. He doesn't deserve your love and your affection. I have to believe there are great guys out there, although I've not looked I need to believe they are out there.

Hey Running in Mud, I'm right there beside you! Let's pick each other up when we fall! Wish we could. Hang in there! Hugs

So a dear friend of DH visited yesterday and mentioned as he left he'd like to take me to dinner. It's been over 2 yrs for me since ..... Well you know. I could be oh so persuaded and I am completely fucked up tonight thinking I could actually do a friends with benefits. WTF am I thinking but at the same time...hell ya. I am a complete mess tonight. Help!

Hugs to you DonnaP

At almost 2.5 yrs me too. I love your nickname! I feel like I'm doing that these days. Not be careless just can't make a decision for the life of me. Ugh!

Hugs to you Jess. You are blessed to have your one true friend to be there for you! Sorry to be a few days late

As I sit here on on a warm Saturday night, reading through various posts a comment on a few, I want thank all of you for your wonderful perspectives and input. I don't always word my replies with the depth that I read and I am continuously amazed by the support provided here for pretty much strangers unless we get to a bago. I sure hope to do that soon. I just don't feel so alone knowing I can come here and you just get me! Thank you Sooooo much!!

Well Mike, I guess you're not as weird or alone as you thought you might be. We get it. I certainly do! That T shirt is inappropriate and offensive. well stupid too if you ask me. As for the cancer slogans and Rharha crap, I hate it to. DH did everything he could. We have all been through hell and yes the ones that haven't traveled this nightmare are of a road don't get it. I didn't before DH died. All in I could see why you had a bad day. I hope you get to have a better weekend! Hugs

Hey Carey I'm sorry Labor Day weekend is so difficult for you. I hope you get to have some rest this weekend! The only reason I like LDW is because I won't have to watch all the people heading out on their vacations with their families. I used to love summer, now......not so much. I sure hope that changes in time. I also am not fond of weekends either, sure hope that changes too! Hang in there. So sorry to hear of your health struggles. Hugs to you!

One day, hour or minute at a time Anne. Oh I so remeber feeling that. At just a bit over 2 yrs it's very different for me but we all travel our own grief journey. Platitudes still drive me nuts but I've learned people can be uncomfortable a don't know what to say. The ones that just said I'm sorry said it all. My Mom was widowed for 25 yrs and I remeber she asked me if I found the days long. Yup, she got me. She's about the only one who did IRL. 2 weeks after DH died my youngest brother said to me " it's time to get on with it" WTF? I told him I don't have a cold. This is going to take a lot of time. He just didn't get it. Hold on and take it easy. We're all here for you and we get it. Hugs

I hear you and had a very rough one yesterday. Just knocked me down out of the blue. I hope you have a nice weekend at the cottage. Hugs

I have 60 first cousins and have literally talked to 2 of them since DH died over 2 yrs ago. Yeah they all like to talk, just not to me. And I thought family was real too.