BrokenHeart2

Any updates? Just askin?

Haven't done it but Hugs to all of you.

I think it should be called Fakebook. All you see is the shines happy side. I call BULLSHIT.

So true SVS like shards of glass. JJ, yes I do that too, somehow I think that is all part of our healing, getting into the pain a grief of the moment. Looking at the videos, hearing the music and reading the emails and texts. For me it's hard but I feel a sense of healing after. After a good cry too. I don't do it often but every now and then I feel like I need to go back and see and hear it and remember. Icoxwell, I believe that is part of processing this pain and the painful journey to healing. For me it's was like I couldn't stop myself even though I knew where it would lead. That's ok. Personally I don't think it was a stupid mistake I see it as part of this grief journey to healing. When I do this I feel like I need to express my pain and I'm seeing/ hearing that yes ' we really did have this, it's wasn't a dream'. It hurts like hell but I believe it is better to feel and express it than to keep it bottled up inside only to explode somehow else. Blessings and hugs

Congratulations Deedee! Sounds to me like you've got this! There will be times you need to vent, we are all here for you! Welcome to the world Deedee's baby girl Hugs to you Deedee

Thank you so much to all of you. I spent 7 hours in emerg today and this evening with my bedridden 82 yr old Mother, she has been my bedrock for the past 2 yrs. diagnosis is mini strokes. It's been a rough few days.

Vent away Heidi. It sure is a roller coaster isn't it. Tight hugs

Thank you to all of you.

Yup hurting really bad

Thank you Marion1953. Marion was my mother in laws name and she was such a sweetie too.

Today is 23 months and nobody acknowledged him at all. It's like he was never here and it's ripping my heart out. I talked to his daughter today and her focus was making roast beef for her boyfriend. Other friends I talked to said nothing. They didn't even clue in. That makes me so sad. He was so terrific and it feels like he's fading from everyone but me. I'll just have my meltdown and go to sleep. Good night my Love and my fellow wids who I know that get it.

I'm thinking it means when the right one comes along in the right time you will know it. Yeah, what's happening with that tall helpful neighbor. I'm thinking you need a bit of help around the house . Trust when the time is right it will happen. Hugs

OMG I thought it was a joke. What a sicko.

Must admit the whole on line dating thing just creeps me out. OMG how times have changed since I was single. Uhg

One of the funniest sick wid threads I've read in a long time. Thanks for making me laugh. That's it. Couldn't imagine going there. Lol

"I was just". I get it. Sorry for the loss of your friend.

I'm so sorry Maureen. Your FIL sounds like a lovely man. So many losses to quickly. I'm glad you had a lovely relationship you your dear FIL. Hugs to you.

Beautifully written! Thank you Questions. You stated my feeling so well.

Not messed up at all you're missing both their love and support. A lot to lose in a 3 month period. Wow, that is a lot . Hugs to you Virgo.

I had a visit without a doubt. In the early depth of my despair I felt him this one time. Laid down and held me this one time. I felt the comfort and prayed it would happen again but hasn't since. It was wonderful and overwhelming. I wouldn't tell anyone else except here because you get it.

ATJ again I say this is such a wonderful post and a reminder of how we all help each other here on Widda in our darkest and loneliest time. Thank you

I am rural and seriously thinking of downsizing. It was 'our' dream. And he's not here with me anymore. It's all changed so much and I feel like it's time for another change. I love it here but not by myself. It's so different now. We built this house together so I was just as invested as he was. Ours, I'm different now whether I like it or not. Yeah that makes me sad too. A girls gotta do what she's gotta do. Hugs.

Thank you for the perspective ATJ.

Good for you. Sounds like you have a really great friend in John to do that with you and know when enough is enough. And... You don't have to get the mud off Hugs to you.

Can say, being in canada Netflix doesn't have that show. Netflix sucks here. Can't comment on the rest since I don't know you well enough. I get your humor though Bear