MissingSquish

I've planned on coming, yup! Just booked boarding for my dog for that night.

Hugs Alexswife! I am constantly amazed at your resolve.

One of Squish's close friends who I haven't seen in a long time was totally trying to get me to sleep with him. I told him that my heart was still a bit bruised from Squish and ex BF and he was like "I'll make you feel much better". I said I just couldn't. Radio silence. (Btw, I was never attracted to him at all, like ever) Yuck.

Congrats! Change is scary for sure, but you can do it! We are all here behind you.

Yum BH2! Can I come over and have some pasta?

Thanks Donswife! I too did laundry today.

Sexy widowed Saturday night is again upon us! I actually just got back from a pretty good first date with a nice guy. I'm not sure what the rest of the night will bring at this point. What are you guys up to?

Everything has been accomplished!

Laundry is started Made my bed Emptied the dishwasher, put dirty dishes in the dishwasher Hair treatment is on

Ok goals for today: Laundry Shower/hair treatment Go through mail Go to bank Go to tailor/dry cleaner

If I don't get remarried again and have children before I die, I'd like to be buried in my wedding dress. My original plan was to use the lace from my wedding dress to make a christening gown for my babies. That can still potentially happen, so that's why I'm holding onto mine.

Way to go! Keep on doing what you're doing. We are here behind you.

She is so on point about so many things.

The widda posse is here behind you! Sending positive thoughts and prayers.

No takers? Still in chat.

Chat time!

Congrats MrsDan!

I have a wrinkle on my forehead that only showed up on my face since Squish died. I am incredibly self-conscious of it, and have considered getting Botox or a chemical peel to get rid of it. Every time I have brought it up to a dermatologist, they shrug me off and say it's not worth addressing. So I use a clarisonic, argan oil and sunscreen daily. My wrinkle looks a little bit less obvious now.

Starting SWSN early tonight. My dog hurt her wrist yesterday and I just got back from the vet. She didn't break any bones and the vet thinks it's a soft tissue injury. We've got some pain medication for her. So I've got a nice night ahead of me hanging with my favorite creature in the world and trying to keep her comfortable. More than likely will be sharing a TV dinner with her and watch some reality TV.

Not gross at all. I wrote a letter to the sellers of my house about my widowhood. It was part of an estate sale, and the seller only wanted to sell to me even after other offers were in.

Kim, Please call me. I am very worried. Your life is worth living. You are worth living.

Sent you a PM.

On 5/29/12 I registered for ywbb, 9 days out from my husband's death. I think this was the day before I was supposed to go back to work. I had been searching for a resource for a few days after his death, while I was still home and in shock, and came across the board. I am celebrating this day today. It was the day that I reached out for help and understanding. My life wasn't over. There were others that had been through similar before. As I got to know the members, I felt more comfortable to share about my experiences. It was the only place I could go that I didn't feel judged. A place I could be exactly myself, just like I was with my husband. I do not want this to turn into a flame fest about why ywbb was shut down. We have each other, and that's all that matters to me. I am fortunate to have each and every one of you here as part of my life. I am raising a virtual toast to the members here, old and new.

I get it. It still sometimes doesn't seem real. And for me, it also sneaks up when things are going well. Huge hugs!

Thanks Mac! Happy belated birthday to you. Hugs.