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Wow what a beautiful song! Thanks Leadfeather.

I get it too. I just don't understand but have come to learn "it is what it is" Hugs

Thank you Judy, I needed this today even after 4 yrs out! Leadfeather, Judy is so right about pushing ourselves when we're ready. I have recently taken up swimming again after many years of not going and I was quickly reminded of how good it made me feel. Keep at it in your own good time and you will eventually get there. Hugs

Gentle hug to you Rob.

This is so beautiful Jeudi. Thank you far all of it! This part really resonates with me. Hugs

Thank you KK. That was beautiful! Around your coffee thoughts, my DH was an early riser and used to bring me a cup of coffee in bed every morning. I miss him so much!

Blessings to both of you and your new blended family!! So happy for you all!! Hugs

I will be there! I can't wait to meet you in person JG and all the rest of you too! I'm sitting here in Killarney Ireland responding to this as I just saw it now! See you in Nov!

Wonderful news!! Congratulations and I hope you have a lovely wedding!! Hugs

Sara, I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes it does feel unbelievable doesn't it. There are a lot of terrific people here that have helped me tremendously over the past four years. I hope you will find a bit of comfort and understanding here in this horrendous time for you and you children. Post as much as you want. Hugs to you.

Hugs to you Sugarbell.

Congratulations Trying!

Way to go SW!! Way to care for yourself!! Hugs

▲▲▲ Yes please! ▲▲▲

This is such sad news. My heart aches for their little girl. I too remember reading his posts and he sounded like such a good man. Thank you Maureen for sharing a little more about Tofinoman. Hugs

My favorite thing in my bread maker is pizza dough. I add spices to it as well and it comes out great. If I don't need all of the dough I freeze individual balls of dough and use it up that way. Happy cooking Wids!

Welcome MP to the group nobody wants to join but glad you found us. Missing her is most certainly understandable. You spent the last 7 yrs with her and now I'm assuming you are alone in the house. I have 5 siblings so I know how busy your house used to be and get how hard it must be now. Could it possibly be that there is some lingering grief that you are just getting to experience now? I don't know, just saying. Hugs

Hi G After what we've been through I don't think those questions you ask yourself is absurd. I have one friend that I had pondered the same thing when I couldn't reach her by phone for days. She was ok and just went away. But I thought the worst right away. Hugs

Congratulations KK. I too had my own house before I met DH. I know how it is to buy and live on my own. It's all so different now though after I have loved deeply and lost and now on my own again. Then I was young and excited in my purchase, career and life I was building at in my early 30's. It is all so different now being in my mid 50's and doing this after such a horrific loss fori me. May you find comfort in your new home and start slowly to rebuild your life. Hugs

Wow M congratulations!!! How exciting for you and your family! Kind of like new beginnings for all of you! I get that fear of change for sure!! I know you're not going to let that stop you!! When do you get your new place? I hope to be saying this soon too!! Happy Hugs!

Thanks Catnip. Yes I'm sure it does bring you comfort. I think what shocked me so much about is that I haven't seen SS in 6 months and the changes in him since then and just all of it at that moment was so bizarre. I've made sure to let him know it was absolutely nothing he did to trigger my reaction.

Ditto Virgo! Me too.

It is unfortunate about the miscommunication and then he didn't contact you before he started the new group. I think your idea "to write a note to the group about supporting the new group and step down as organizer." is a good idea for you. It could be a time for a new beginning for you Hey Rob, I know it won't be the same thing but we could always be your outlet when that time rolls around. Hugs

Prayers for all of you in Florda.

Awe SD, sounds like you have much to be proud of in this devastating time. And as for missing all that "stuff", yup I get that. Looking back now I remember my first time in the grocery store. Ugh. Walked by the cheese popcorn and lost it. Had to walk by all the cashes to get out of the store. I was done shopping and didn't buy a thing. It makes sense to us. Hugs