Virgo

Very sad.

It still feels like a bad dream that I'm hoping to wake up from.

I think because I've been a stay at home mom for 16 years most of my friends feel that I was solely dependent on my LH and incapable of making sound decisions on my own. Especially when it comes to financial decisions. That's not me. I'm more than capable of managing things on my own. I wish I didn't have to, but I'm more than capable. I take others opinions into consideration, because it is good to get an outside perspective sometimes, but ultimately it's my decision. You just have to do what you feel is best for you and your children (if you have children.)

I donated whole blood for the first time on his birthday. He received a lot of blood and platelets during his treatments and I promised him that I would donate because he wouldn't be able to. I plan on donating a few more times this year, including platelets. There is a plaque in front of the police department honoring him and his years of service.

You have to do what feels right for you. There is no right or wrong amount of time. I wore my ring only a few times. It just didn't feel right for me. It hurt me more than it helped me. I ended up having my solitaire diamond set into a heart pendant. I enjoy wearing it now, no tears.

200 abs lat pulldowns cable rows straight leg deadlifts bent over rows straight bar pushdowns drag curls on Smith machine db concentration curls I started walking on the treadmill but couldn't stand the stench of a guy in the gym. I could smell him as soon as he walked in.Gross! I know that probably sounds bad, but don't let your cats use your clothes as their litter box.

Not all aspects, but most. Our lives are forever changed.

He will. The laws need to change! My LH was a K9 officer. He had several repeat offenders. Even some without a valid driver's license that chose to get behind the wheel while under the influence. The officers get tired of arresting the same violators repeatedly too. One year my LH had over 200 DUI arrests, terrible. It is so selfish and irresponsible to drink and drive. I hope your wrist continues to heal well and your anxiety while driving lessens.

It really hasn't been an issue for me other than filling out forms. I guess it would depend on the situation, but like you I don't feel that everyone I meet needs to know.

Trying, that doesn't sound like fun for you or your son. My daughters and I went out for lunch and did some shopping today. We had a good time.

Joe is mine ladies.

Do you know anyone that would be up for a FWB situation Jen? That way it would be someone you know and a safe. It's hard. I feel the same way. I started a FWB situation, but we didn't get very far (no intercourse.) It just didn't feel right.

Looks like I'll be adding a few of these to my goals list Monday.

1. Celebrated my 16yo's birthday (again) today. Went to Uptown Kitchen for lunch. 2. Bought myself some Vans. 3. Bought a few baby gifts. Friends of ours had a baby girl, and my youngest daughter's youth pastor is having a boy. It's been awhile since I've shopped for a baby. It was fun.

I went to the gym last night at 11pm and did a quick chest/tri/ab workout. Easier to supersets when you're the only one there. lol hammer chest press hammer incline chest press hammer decline chest press cable flys hammer dips cable pushdowns 200 abs

Everyone grieves differently. We all have different situations. Different relationships with our spouses, different causes of death, possibly different circumstances leading up to their death. Different family dynamics. How could we all grieve the same? I don't think anyone should be telling you how you will or should feel either. You don't even know how you'll feel a few months from now, so how would they? In a group setting like that I would expect people to just listen when I open up. Maybe share with me when they can relate to something I've said. I would do the same for them. We're here to support each other and listen, not tell each other how to feel. You are not doing anything wrong Tweety.

I have the evening to myself (daughters are staying the night with my dad) and will probably end up going to the gym, maybe getting a few groceries, and then back home. Party animal! I wish I had a date.

Looks like you had a great time. Both of you sounded great and were very entertaining. Good for you! Elle would be happy that you're finding yourself again.

Wow Trying you have been busy. Good for you! I had a busy day but only accomplished one thing on my list. ..my workout.

Treadmill to warm up. leg extensions lying leg curls leg presses on sled goblet squats walking lunges cross lunges standing calf raises Arnold presses hammer shrugs

I must be the odd widow here. Having a clean house and being organized helps me maintain my sanity. My favorite room in the house is my room because it's always clean and organized. I even make my bed every morning.

You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Do you play this horrible mind game? Did I have this shirt before or after? (translation: did he see me in this shirt?) Did this song come out before or after? (translation: he would have liked this song.) ....and on and on and on.

I don't think it's stupid. It was quality time spent with your wife, more memories shared. I get it. I felt the same way finishing Sons of Anarchy and Justified without my husband.

Congratulations! You should be proud of yourself.