Jen Posted March 8, 2015 Share Posted March 8, 2015 Fuck the cold and heartless way we were cut loose without warning. But humongous hugs to everyone who found our new home-- and especially to Jezzy and Justin for putting it together so quickly and beautifully! Testing, testing... fuck one, fuck two - fuck me, fuck you.... Let's see if the smileys are working. Well, fuck being abandoned - but I coulda said that eight months ago. You never get used to it, but it seems that - with the right friends - you can deal. So there's that. Lol' date=' I was gonna say the same. Fuck the way we came together to share in our sadness, happiness and everything in between only to have it taken away. But now I'm happy once again, that we have this new place, and thankful to those who put it together so quickly![/quote'] Fuck Yeah! Fuck that the other board died suddenly' date=' like my wife. Not fucking traumatizing in the least. But hey, I'm liking the new board and even have figured out that even though we can't post new stuff on the old board, we can EDIT our old posts, so we can spread the word that way.[/quote'] Fuck that new wids aren't easily going to be able to find a resource to help them. Fuck that I lose all my old posts. Fuck the inquest I have to go to on Wednesday! And fuck the press that will be there- they have already caused enough grief for myself and my family' date=' why should they be allowed there?![/quote'] Fuck starting over. Hey' date=' how come you guys get this thread? I hope you don't mind a 2.5 year wid stopping by to let it fly occasionally![/quote'] Editorial comment: there is no time limit on grief or this thread. Everyone is welcome, any time, any reason! I am not one to drop the "f bomb"' date=' nor do I even use the word, but it was an absolute favorite of my Kenneth's, and the last time I ever got to hear him say it was one year ago today.[/quote'] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markb74 Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Fuck those who say they will be there for you, and to ask them for anything... then you never hear from then again. Fuck social situations when someone says something dumb then they realize what they said was not appropriate. Fuck people who think you can flip a switch and go back to being normal. Fuck people who think they can help you by making you rush and get rid of stuff you have a reason to hold onto and they dont get it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tk74 Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 I think I'm going to like it here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OSAAT Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Haha!! So glad this made it over here!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Is there a possibility of moving this into General? I still like saying FUCK even though I'm outside the 6-12 months category ;-) Not a problem if you can't. I'll just invade anyway. FUCK that my widow bestie has been upset by her in laws. She deserves to be left to grieve in peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Fuck yet another thing to learn... oh well, gives me something to do I suppose.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 9, 2015 Author Share Posted March 9, 2015 I just put it where I originally found it. If the general concensus is to move it, I'm fine with that. I admit, I find it convenient... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted March 9, 2015 Share Posted March 9, 2015 Fuck insomnia that leaves me exhausted all day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangomom Posted March 10, 2015 Share Posted March 10, 2015 Fuck that my kid is hurting and I can't make it better. I know, this would have happened even if Dad didn't die, but still... It fucking sucks. What sucks. Most is that I don't have another adult who is equally invested to bounce ideas off of. There, now it's about him dying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 10, 2015 Author Share Posted March 10, 2015 Big ol' DITTO here, Mangomom. My littlest guy was upset and crying a few nights ago-- he sobbed, "I wish I'd never been born! Then I wouldn't have stressed out Jim, and Jim wouldn't be dead!" :'( :'( :'( Fuck that we can't fix the grief for our babies, or for each other, or for ourselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OSAAT Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Fuck the insensitive prick who attacked me by saying I was dishonest because I still love J. (According to dickwaud of the fucking century) If I tell a new guy I am dating that I still love J, I am stirring the pot, and if I don't tell, I am dishonest. WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU?? FUCK YOU AND THE HORSE YOU RODE IN ON. FFS!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Fuck the people who have so much advice to give when they have no fucking idea what they are talking about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Fuck the people who have so much advice to give when they have no fucking idea what they are talking about. ^ this.. 1000000 times this. Fuck the people who compare the loss of my love to the loss of their distant relative or their pet. You do not know EXACTLY how I feel... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sphoc Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 Fuck thinking that things were going better. It looks like I won't be able to buy a house after all as I can't seem to get financing. Fuck my school for it's weird enrollment reporting. Fuck that it feels like every major decision I make in my life turns to crap. Just fuck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 14, 2015 Author Share Posted March 14, 2015 Fuck my feelings. Fuck this goddamn roller coaster from hell. I WANT OFF. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tweety76 Posted March 14, 2015 Share Posted March 14, 2015 FUCK THIS SHIT!!!!!! Why the FUCK does it have to hit so hard that exactly now a year ago I heard his voice the last time! FUCK!!!!!!!!! MAKE IT STOP!!!! ENOUGH!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patriciad Posted March 16, 2015 Share Posted March 16, 2015 Fuck cancer! And fuck chemo-the killer cure. Pat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Fuck. It. ALL. Just all of it. Low paying job I no longer love. IRS/Student Loan/NC Dept of Revenue/Wayne County tax office please bend over. Fuck the family that is no longer there ... the birth of the great-nephew next week that hasn't even been mentioned to me do I want to be there. Fuck the kids who are being mean to my son causing him not to want to go to school. Fuck that idiot boy that I thought was finally out of my daughter's life who waltzed back in last weekend and asked for scrambled eggs like he owned the place. Fuck appliances that don't work. Fuck the cows in the field across the street. Really no one wants me to keep going. So yea, today? All of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twistedmensa Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 My favorite thread! Fuck is such a versatile word. A noun, a verb, an exclamation. What is not to love about such a useful tool? oh....and fuck cancer. And fuck the docs that wasted precious time treating him for bronchitis when every fiber of my being knew that the cancer was back. And fuck being responsible for every fucking thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Kamcho Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 Have I dropped a "Fuck cancer" recently? No? FUCK YOU, CANCER! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 19, 2015 Author Share Posted March 19, 2015 And fuck being responsible for every fucking thing. DITTO. Big time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangomom Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 And fuck being responsible for every fucking thing. DITTO. Big time. triple ditto. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twistedmensa Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 And fuck those "Share if you're married to your best friend" posts on facebook that keep infiltrating my timeline!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 Fuck Em all. I fucking hate cancer and I fucking hate those not there to help and support me. I love my wids here on Widda.org!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 19, 2015 Share Posted March 19, 2015 Fuck people who are perfectionists. They've had nothing wrong in their lives that gives them a sense of perspective. They are NOT WISE. A colleague, who went back on a decision, just quoted Wilde at me: The well-bred contradict other people, the wise contradict themselves. I just found this hilarious quote and wish I could respond with it: ?Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life, and it is the main obstacle between you and a shitty first draft. I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive belief that if you run carefully enough, hitting each stepping-stone just right, you won't have to die. The truth is that you will die anyway and that a lot of people who aren't even looking at their feet are going to do a whole lot better than you, and have a lot more fun while they're doing it.? ― Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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