Bones Posted October 24, 2015 Share Posted October 24, 2015 Yep, I have been lurking for the last three months. But leave it to me to join, and debut my grief here on the Fuck You thread. Fuck you FIL who half heartedly offered to help in any way, until I apparently called your bluff. Fuck you Frenemy with your nuggets of wisdom along the way. Like this, " You know how I am, I had to research J's cancer. Only 12 cases in modern history. It's bad, isn't it ?" Fuck every so called friend that can't even take the time to send a text. Fuck that I think about sex more than a teenaged boy- wth. Why just why?? Fuck, I've been strong enough haven't I ? Why can't someone let me be weak for one flipping hour. Please let me cry in a heap, hold me and tell me it will be okay. Just for one hour. Fuck the next person who asks about the college tours we have been on. You are kidding me right? Because apparently cancer just has a beginning and an end. Fuck all the self absorbed people who assume that someone is stepping up to be there so they are off the hook. Not a single one. Fuck the grief diet that did not work for me. I followed it exactly- still a size 14 here. Thank you that was felt fucking great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadiangirl Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 Bones, sorry for the loss that got you here, but with respect to your post - I get it. Eff it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizjsea Posted October 25, 2015 Share Posted October 25, 2015 Fuck that, after my husband taught me the simple but complete contentment of the coffee ritual together, I now sip my coffee alone with my heart hurting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Fuck the fact that today we should have been getting married.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 oh honey .... no no no. I'm so sorry Sally... youre right ..fuck that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jess Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Fuck the fact that today we should have been getting married.. So sorry. I cannot imagine. I am glad to see you check in and hope you are holding up okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quixote Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Nothing to say, Sally, other than utmost sympathies. Hoping you have friends or family to hold on to today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twistedmensa Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 A great big FUCK YOU to all of the people that said they were coming to my son's 12th birthday yesterday and EVERY DAMN ONE (including my family), cancelled at the last moment or didn't call at all. NOBODY came for his birthday. He was devastated. I usually do a big family gathering for Thanksgiving....fuck all that...chucked the original plan and made reservations at a local restaurant for my Mom, myself and my kids. They are the only family I need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Twisted Mensa that just plain sucks! I am so sorry for your son and for you. I think your Thanksgiving plan sounds like a safe and good plan. JacklessSally, I'm very sorry your wedding never happened, it really is so unfair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brenda Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 A great big FUCK YOU to all of the people that said they were coming to my son's 12th birthday yesterday and EVERY DAMN ONE (including my family), cancelled at the last moment or didn't call at all. NOBODY came for his birthday. He was devastated. I'm going to add a big "fuck them" for such shitty behavior. Sorry your son had to go through that. People can be such total dicks and you're right not to put up with that ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadiangirl Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 A great big FUCK YOU to all of the people that said they were coming to my son's 12th birthday yesterday and EVERY DAMN ONE (including my family), cancelled at the last moment or didn't call at all. NOBODY came for his birthday. He was devastated. I usually do a big family gathering for Thanksgiving....fuck all that...chucked the original plan and made reservations at a local restaurant for my Mom, myself and my kids. They are the only family I need. Echoing a big FUCKEM to those people who did not come to your son's birthday. My child would be devastated too. Like you don't have enough to bear. ((twistedmensa)) Also ((JacklessSally)) such a tough day, hope you are okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 Fuck that he can't just come back. I can't do this all on my own anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donswife Posted November 5, 2015 Share Posted November 5, 2015 Fuck that he can't just come back. I can't do this all on my own anymore. well said and I feel myself saying this more and more everyday ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrskro Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Fuck that on what would have been his birthday my phone and facebook are blowing up with so many messages of people "thinking of me". WHERE THE FUCK HAVE YOU BEEN THE REST OF THE YEAR?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrskro Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 A great big FUCK YOU to all of the people that said they were coming to my son's 12th birthday yesterday and EVERY DAMN ONE (including my family), cancelled at the last moment or didn't call at all. NOBODY came for his birthday. He was devastated. I usually do a big family gathering for Thanksgiving....fuck all that...chucked the original plan and made reservations at a local restaurant for my Mom, myself and my kids. They are the only family I need. No words....hugs to you and your son That is completely fucked up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 ((((((((JS)))))))))) Ditto. Ditto, ditto, ditto. And while I'm on the subject... just fuck my life. Fuck it straight to hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadiangirl Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 This is a great short video posted in July on YouTube that you may like if you are posting in this thread. Warning: language, not to be played aloud with kids in the room. But so soothing! Wish I could play it at work on a loop. Starts to get good at 23s and 40s in, excellent by one minute... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jlp Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Thanks for sharing, canadiangirl -- that was hilarious! After doing pretty well for about a month, I've found myself to be quite weepy the last couple of days, for no apparent reason. This was just what I needed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuckwonderingwhy Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 So many thoughts here that I can relate to. I'll join you all as well. Fuck my so called friends that can't be bothered to help me in my grief. Fuck the text messages. Why the FUCK wouldn't they call? Fuck my co-workers for treating me like a door mat. Fuck them for laughing at me while I struggle. Fuck everyone who has turned me away when I have asked for help. Fuck those who said they'd always be there and are nowhere to be found a few weeks later. Fuck me for feeling like I've been the one who's done something wrong to them. Fuck this feeling that I'm worthless by myself. And FUCK I wish it was easier to handle this on my own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 fuck that my 16 year old son had nearly get suspended from school yesterday before anyone would listen to him. WTF??? You gonna suspend a kid for CRYING over his dad? He left the room to try to control his emotions cause he was embarrassed. SO I went to war. Needless to say, he is not suspended however I am still pissed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twistedmensa Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 So sorry, Carey. Sometimes I am amazed at the callousness of people. It shouldn't be that hard to ask a question or two instead of jumping to conclusions. I'm a big girl, I can take it...but don't fuck with my kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donswife Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 Fuck that I don't have the guts to sit down , after a year , and figure out a budget Fuck that I am avoiding this in case I will have to start making tough decisions Fuck that I have to be a grown up ....alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 Fuck November. 2 years ago you brought me the love of my life. A year ago, you ripped him from me. Fuck you November. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 for sure fuck you November. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted November 24, 2015 Share Posted November 24, 2015 Fuck that tomorrow, he will have been dead longer than we were together.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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